We all know there is no such thing as “too much money” or “a girl too pretty”, but what if someone asked you was there such a thing as too much planning? Depending on your gender, you will probably answer this question drastically different than your counter sex.
I know most women are wondering how could you ever over plan something, but it’s possible. From a male’s perspective, women plan entirely too much and only set themselves up for heartache when their master schemes falls short.
For example: Men never have a clue on how we think a date is going to turn out. We just go! Does this mean we aren’t dating to find a potential match? No! It means we realize this is a first date, and we must meet someone first before we can plan the wedding.
Girls, you can’t set expectations for someone you just meet. If you already see yourself falling for a guy after a week, how painful will it be when you find out he would rather just date your best friend?
If you spend all your time planning and building an image of how every step of life should be there will be no room for spontaneous moments and the ability to be surprised. The only reason anyone ever gets their feelings hurt is because something didn’t go as they planned.
Of course, this does not apply to every part of life. Yes, you must plan to wash clothes, take a shower, or get up at a certain time. I get it! Just make sure that you don’t spend so much time planning a future you begin to ignore your present.